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Letter to Adam Gilad on Personal Life Media’s “The Fearless Lover”

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on May 13, 2009
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Freedom

Sometimes you don’t know the affect you are having on others.

The lesson I find in the letter I received below is:  GIVE YOUR GIFT!  

Even if you’re speaking into the void.  Even if it finds ears many months later.  About a year ago, I did a podcast for Personal Life Media based around ideas in Don Miguel Ruiz’s work (The Four Agreements and The Mastery of Love).  Today, it found its way to someone who needed it.

Here’s the note I received today:

Dear Adam,
Your podcast, “The track of love and the track of fear” is helping me get through a tough time.
I met a man online that I thought was going to date me forever, and after 3 months he
informed me he was too busy, all the while “finding women to flirt with” on Facebook (so his post stated).
 My two grown children spent mother’s day with their father.
My 16 year old has not been home in 3 years (she lives with her dad).
I found out today that my 18 year old will not graduate from school.
I am losing a client that brings in $3000/month due to the auto industry bullshit.
My home is in foreclosure.
I need love.
thanks for listening, Adam.

**

I responded to her right away…

Dear G,

Thanks for you note

Remember — it’s not so much that you need love.  You ARE love.
Let it flow from you always, even in the face of fear and disappointment with the way the world works - which is always going to be out of your control.
Whatever else happens, you have the choice to love.
Good luck with the details of it all.
We can’t always see it right away but the truth appears over and over:  one door closes, another opens…
The more you become the flow of love, the more and better doors will open for you.
- Adam
**
This is what is in our power every moment.  Do we love or do we clench up?  Do we allow love to flow between us and others/the world.  Or do we hold back our love?
Which do you think will bring you the life you want sooner?

Get Married Once A Day…

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on August 4, 2008
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… or don’t get married at all.

One of the last places you’d ever expect to find a spiritual awakening is in an Adam Sandler movie. However, there is a big one at the end of 50 First Dates when Drew Barrymore — who has no short term memory (always a good thing) — wakes up and sees flowers and photos…

The photos slowly tell her the story of her romance, then marriage to Sandler - and then she sees she has children with him. It is all news to her!

The look of amazement and gratitude that washes over her perky-nosed face is absolutely inspiring.

It is the look we should all have every day as we realize whatever boons we have in our life - health, abundance, and most of all — love… Continue reading ‘Get Married Once A Day…’